Formula For Success
Whether you're searching for a pretty Lao wife, want to heal a relationship, get a new job, become debt free, lose weight, own a nice car, find inner peace or other things you want to achieve, consider these characteristics that are common to people who succeed in life.
Have a vision
Has this ever happened to you? You start a week. You have some things planned, some definite things on the calendar, a few goals. And when you get to the end of the week, something entirely different and unexpected has walked into your life and upended it. But you deal with it, because you have to. A vision doesn't have to be specific and it doesn't have to be tied to any timeframe, things change in life such as travel plans but a vision gives you something to drive towards and inspires you to overcome the adversities you will face along the way. So write down your vision and goals and read it every day.
Make a strategy
People who succeed have a clear and thoughtful strategy. In order to achieve your outcome there will always be a strategy. Even though it looks like outcomes and accompanying strategies are different, in essence your own personal strategy is always the same and can be used for all your goals in life. Take some time to write down every step that you need to do in order to take you to the finish line and achieve your outcome.
Find a passion
Passion is simply what makes you happy. If going fishing makes you happy and a large amount of time or energy is spent catching fish, this is a source of passion. Ask yourself what makes you happy. This is your passion. It doesn't matter what it is. It can be as simple as walking in the park or watching your favourite sports team play on the weekend. Whatever it is, nothing is too far fetched to do as a way of life. Don't let fear or other people and their negativity stop you from living the life you have imagined. Be fearless and strong in the pursuit of your passion. Let nothing stand in your way and wake up every morning feeling excited and energized. You need to live and breathe what it is that you want, and be passionately invested in both the journey and the goal.
Live the truth
People who consistently win have no room in their lives for denial, fantasy or fiction. They deal with the truth, since they recognize that nothing else will make their vision obtainable. Truth has a way of expressing itself even when we deny it. We may try to respond in the way we think others expect us to, but the body never lies. The tone of voice, the body language, or the facial expression gives us away. When I ask people, "How are you?", I often hear them respond by saying "I'm fine", and yet I don't believe their words because their eyes are dull - no joy there! The eyes are the windows to the soul and when the eyes are not bright with life, how can I believe their words? There is no resonance between the inner truth and that which is expressed. You can't avoid the truth within. So instead of avoiding or suppressing it, you should embrace the truth. Once you start living from your inner truth, you step into authenticity. As the conflict between your inner truth and your outer expression drops away, your body can return to peace.
Life is not a success-only journey. Even the best laid plans sometimes must be altered and changed. Be open to input and consider any potentially viable alternative. Be willing to be wrong and be willing to start over. You don't want to pull your hair out in desperation because your plans and goals have been derailed, do you?
People who consistently win are willing to get out of their comfort zone and try new and challenging things. Everyone has something called "The Comfort Zone." It's only human for us to do whatever we can to stay in the comfort zone. Whether that is doing the house work, sitting in front of the TV all day or countless number of other things, the comfort zone will hold you back from achieving your true potential. Every moment you spend doing those things that you're comfortable with could be another moment you spend honing the skills that will drive you to success. If you break out of your comfort zone and plunge into the unknown, you'll be amazed at the fruit it will provide in your life.
Create a strong nucleus
Surround yourself with a group of people who want you to succeed. They will move with you toward your goal. Choose and bond with people who have skills, talents and abilities that you do not. Winners give and receive by being part of other people's nuclear groups. If you have joy and a belief in people to succeed, you will give that. If you carry resentment, fear, or blaming, you will give that. You will reap what you sow. You will receive what you give. What are you giving to the people around you today? Your joy, your smile, your positive intent, your compassion, your blessing, your desire to help, your forgiveness, your vision for their success? Do not underestimate your power. Power is not something you have to get. You already have it. You are a nucleus, and who you are creates a ripple effect, influencing others with your strength.
Do it! People who succeed don't just sit and think about what they want to do. They take meaningful action consistently and persistently. Every step you take will put you toward the outcome that you're looking for. Letís say that today there is a football game. Those that arrived must have intended to arrive there. Not everyone arrived in the same way (the action). Some people may have walked, others rode the bus, some took the train or subway, or drove. But, no matter how they arrived, they all intended to arrive at the game. It is intention combined with action that produces desired results. No action is to have no intention. To have an intention to go to the football game and take no action means that there was never any intention. So it is with life. To be wherever you are in life is based upon intention or lack thereof. Everything we have is stems from intention. To have no intention is also an intention and leaves you open to be blown around. A time of chaos may follow. Be clear on your intention. Today I intend to ....
If you want true success the first course of action is to sit down right now and determine your priorities. For example, if finding a Lao girlfriend is a key result area in your life, then begin to determine what your priorities are to begin a relationship. She must be traditional could be high on your list, she must be prepared to have children could be another priority. A priority is anything in your life that is an absolute must and it comes before anything else except for a higher ranking priority. Once you have decided on your priorities, write them down in front of you in black and white in their order of importance. Begin to think about how you will handle each of these priorities in your life. It is very important to spend time thinking about your priorities now, so you are ready for any situation when it occurs. Start towards achieving success by determining your priorities and writing them down so that you don't forget about them and I encourage you to review them on a consistent basis.
Take care of yourself
When we take care of ourselves, we are happy and complete within. When we are complete and happy within then there is no lack. There within us lies a great joy beyond any imagination or any words explainable. For we are so grand in every way and everywhere inside and outside. Taking care of yourself is a full time job, which requires your full attention. As you go through your daily life, you must continually ask yourself what can I do to better take care of myself. By paying better attention to your life, you can better see areas in your life where you can take advantage of opportunities to improve your life. There may be some areas in your life that are weak or unstable. Ask yourself, what can I do to make my life situations better? Identify areas where improvement is needed and move towards solutions in all these identified areas. Begin the process by taking one small step at a time.