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Dear Lao Babes Staff,
I am just writing you to express my compliments and the joy I had to
visit your website. In preparation of my trip to Laos
this year I found your website and stayed with you guys for more than
two hours!
As a world traveller I heard about the extraordinary
character and virtues qualities which together with the outstanding
beauty of the Laotian women form, what I believe, the most beautiful
a woman can be. Being single, I would have even submitted my profile
to get a chance to know one of these wonderful women who placed their
profiles on your website. But, unfortunately I seem to be too old for
the women who enjoy the world with putting her profiles on your
website.
I am traveling the world to find the Lady of my Heart. She
should be in her early to mid thirties and wishing to create a family
based on absolute honesty, virtues, values and willing to share her
life experiences with an interesting man from the other side of the
world. She must not have racial prejudices as I am a man of white
skin but with a soul and heart that are colored with all colors of
the people and my friends from many places of this wonderful planet.
If she would work in the medical field, as me, that would make the
joy perfect. I love to serve the people of the world. Especially the
children of this planet. Working for UNICEF in my country.
Why do I write you this? I don't know. Maybe just because I think
that you might like to have a feedback and appreciation for your
work. You are doing a wonderful job. And I like the way who you do it
very much.
Kindest regards
Claus
I got to this location after googling Laos. My father was married to
my mom in America for fifteen years, got a wife in Laos during their 9th year of
marriage. I have met her, I have stayed at her house with her family, and I
would say she is a common prostitute. These women marry men who are already
married in other countries. They are breaking up marriages, families for thirty
dollars a month. Of course the men are stupid if they think it's worth risking
their families for a Meah-Noi, but why do these women do not have enough self
respect for themselves. Life's rough, but you'll survive. I honestly cannot
stand these women, they see the man once every three to four years, calls
herself his wife while he's there, and a wife of another man while he is in
America.
While I was in Laos I had a bunch of young girls ask my husband if he wanted a
meah-noi (as we're walking through the bazarre), and I am right there holding
his hand. Grant it I am half white and look mexican, but they didn't have any
respect for me or my husband. You should have seen their faces when I told them
he only needs one wife, not a whore in Lao.
I also see a lot of Lao guys who are citizens in the U.S. who marry women in
Laos and Thailand and bring them to America, once they learn the culture and way
of life they leave their husband. All of the seven guys here in Sacramento,
California that I know have brought their "wife" to America have had their
"wife" leave them for other men. One of them has gone back to get another one,
idiot.
I guess what I am getting at is they may not be whores selling themselves on the
street for one night stand, but they are selling themselves to tourist who they
hope will either take them to their country or send them support every month.
Tasha Ketphanh
Thank You so much for wonderful pages! It allready gave me lot of
informations and help me to understand my lao girlfriend.
In january i met 1 girl in massage place and she was...wow! I visited her
home and her parents want that i go married with her. Only problem is that
i don't know does she really love me because last time when i stay in Laos
i had so many lonely days and i even didn't know where she was. But sure i
little understand because i just came her life like a thunder in clear
sky..she had life allready before i came and she wasn't ready...
question i had when i read you writings, if go engage is she allowed to
flight with me in finland? Can coverment be not allowed that or is it only
us thing?
Now i have plan to come in Laos again october or november ..and then i
wait that she prove her love or..
My email is mikuliini@luukku.com
Mika
Hello Mika,
We are glad you enjoy our articles.
Her parents sound very desperate if they want you to marry their
daughter quickly. Be careful, make sure she loves you and don't rush with it. Do
what's in your best interest.
Your girlfriend is allowed to go to Finland with you if you can sponsor
her and she has the required documentations such as Passport and Visa.
Regards,
Lao Babes
Thank You for answer!
Carefully is most important thing what i can't forget!
Sometimes when i called to her she ask money to parents, not to much but anyway it
makes me thinking one of You artickle where You wrote that if she ask money she not
love to you.. And during my visit in Laos they told me me that lao-girl is not easy
to show her feelings and love for farang if not married..i even wait her first kiss!
But also i have to understand that i just came her life like a thunder in blue
sky..lot of new things!
Many questions what i have on my mind when i come to next time you country. To
stayed in Laos was good time, You have so peaceful country where allmoust can feel
that time can stop!
Best regards!
Mika from Finland
Hello Mika,
You're welcome.
My gut feeling is that she likes money more than she loves you.
Money should be given by your own generosity, and not by requesting it.
Most Lao girls will allow their Lao boyfriends to kiss them. Maybe you are
a westerner and she sees you like an outsider and she is still shy. You
just met her so maybe it will take time and patience.
Laos is quite enjoyable and peaceful. A friend told us that he had so much
fun and it felt like time went by fast.
Regards,
Lao Babes
Sabai dii!
Thank You for answering again!
I have only 1 month experience for Laos peoples but i have 1,5 years experience for
living in Thailand.
So it is not so easy to know Pok (my girlfriend), her feelings and why she do this or
that..
Many time sit is not easy to call her in Vang vieng because connections are so bad.
1 week ago i called to her, and end of call she asked money and her papa asked it
too. I told them that i don't put money inside my letters..little help by bank
transfer mayby is ok sometimes.
Only problem is that i remembered how she is acted last time. And like in your web
site i can read that if someone warning you, have to listen. He told me that many
boys like her and she like many boys..but sure before me she have life.
I have to decide do i give her change again to prove her love for me and tell my
rules and hopes or just forget and move on..
Life is not easy....;o)
Have a nice day!!!!
Hello Mika,
It's wrong for both father and daughter to ask for money when you hardly know her.
And the last thing you want to do is send money in an envelope because it will most likely be stolen through the postal system.
It sounds like your girlfriend likes to play around with many guys and she is only after money. My advice is that you should consider your future carefully. I think there are many questions you need to answer before you really commit yourself to a relationship with her.
Try to learn more about your girlfriend and her family, and time will test your relationship and compatibility since both of you grew up in different environments. If it doesn't work well for you then cut her out of your life and find someone better.
Regards,
Lao Babes
Sabai dii!
Yes..it is wrong, because true love can't buy and i don't even want to try. I
understood during staying in Laos that normal lao people shame to ask money..they
can wait if give but not ask it!
This morning she calles at first time to me and after she asked where i'm...second
question was send 300$ to me. Hmmm...300$, i think she and family are greed!
In end of january i allready gave her 250$ to her to buy passport her and mother..i
hoped that they come to see me in thailand but didn't. Mayby they try to buy
passport or mayby not..or mayby shopping first and then money finished.. Later in
february when i arrival in vang vieng they told that money go to ID card and
hospital bills when she was in achident..
Wel...life is hard but u can make it harder!
Best wishes!
mika
Hello Mika,
You shouldn't be sending that much money. Most people in Laos don't even earn that much.
If you keep giving them money, it means you are stupid and I don't mean to say that in a bad way, but that's how the Lao community will think of you.
You don't know your girlfriend well yet. Some people are great actors and I'll give you an example of something that happened in Thailand. When I saw a beggar in Bangkok holding her daughter and crying, I really felt sorry for them. They asked me for money so they could catch a bus back home to their village. I gave them 1,000 baht ($30 US) which is alot of money. The next day, I saw them again and a local street vendor told me that they were professional beggars. I was shocked because it was hard to believe it.
You shouldn't believe everything she says. If you had a friend or relative in Laos to confirm her story then you can believe her.
I think for your own sake you should stop sending her any more money. Her family has survived without your financial support in the past so they can survive now.
This is a good time to test her love for you. If she truly loves you, she will understand you. If she dumps you because you didn't send her money, it means that she is nothing but a gold digger. Remember, you always need to be ahead of your girlfriend, never let her control you.
Regards,
Lao Babes
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